lady! UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD A DOCTOR (of any sort) TALK TO YOU LIKE THAT. Seriously. I'd suggest calling every health board you can and complaining... you could even call the doctor's office and complain. Gah. What an jackass pisserfuck. (But seriously, you should do whatever you are the most comfortable with. I'm here for ya!)

I had similar problems with the whole BC thing- doctors kept pushing the pill and after 6-7 years on it I just wasn't happy with it. I even tried switching to a mini-pill, but that sucked even worse. Just condoms is working out fine for me- remember, the day-after pill is available over-the-counter here, should there be a condom malfunction.